8 Reasons Why Men Prefer Dating Older Women
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Dating has become so much easier with technology guiding us through the painstaking process of landing our perfect one! But these sites and apps that match us to people with similar interests are notorious in the sense that their statistics reveal men prefer to date women who are in their 20s even if they are 50 years old themselves! The strange thing is that this inclination of men to date younger women is acceptable, but the reverse is often frowned upon!
Don’t worry, we won’t bore you with gender equality jargon because the point here is that unlike these men, there are some who are attracted to older women. Going against the societal taboo, such men do exist so even if you aren’t Madonna or JLo, you may find love in a younger man, after all there are so many reasons why men want to date mature women.
WHY YOUNGER MEN LIKE TO DATE OLDER WOMEN
1 Confidence is sexy: As if you didn’t already know this- men find confident women sexy! Even though confidence isn’t directly linked to age but younger women tend to be insecure about themselves, because they can’t help but compare themselves to the models they regularly see on the covers of Vogue and GQ! They suffer from unhealthy self-image because let’s face it- flawless skin, concave belly, hour glass figure with zero cellulite isn’t the most common body type!
Older women on the other hand have been through all this, and have emerged out smarter with the knowledge that they are sexy in their own skin. Guess what? Men find this so much sexier than young girls who get jealous by a simple, “She looks pretty”!
2 No commitment pressure: This may sound more like a stereotype but let’s face it, this applies 8 out of 10 times! Younger women are more likely to run after commitment than mature women. Older ladies have had their fair share of serious relationships, seen the pros and cons and have probably grown tired of them, at least you can hope for the last bit. The point is that mature women know what kinda emotional stress comes with a serious relationship and are thus not jumping at any opportunity they get to tag the guy as their “boyfriend” unless of course everything is working out just fine. The men won’t feel strangled with the expectation of commitment with older women and trust us, this is a good enough reason to date them.
- Better dates: If your idea of a date is getting drunk, dancing to the music blaring from some annoying speakers and then passing out in the washroom, then you are better off with a young girl. But if intellectual conversations stimulate you more than seeing semi-naked girls in the club, you might want to explore the other options. Older women are generally more aware about the world and can give you amazing trivia while sipping expensive wine in a relatively more human-like place. The best part is that you may not even have to pay for her drinks because remember we told you, she is financially independent and going Dutch might be her style.
- No liabilities: If you are an older woman, chances are that you are already well settled in your life with your career in place and priorities well laid out. You had a way of life before the man walked by and swept you off your feet and you probably will still live like the independent woman that you are.
You won’t make your man the center of your life and that’s something most men like, and also something most young women fail to give them. Plus how can we forget that older women already have money, house and car so they aren’t probably after your money. That’s a huge doubt cleared out, boys you can take a sigh of relief.
- No biological clock ticking: The millennials and Generation Y males are no longer like their ancestors who had a settled career, married and proud parents to 3 by the time they hit 35! This generation will most likely devote a few years to fun before they can mentally prepare themselves to settle down and plan a family. Don’t judge them, after all most of them are still struggling to pay off their student loans and stabilize a career so where’s the space for a family? This is why dating an older woman is a great idea because her biological clock isn’t ticking like a younger woman. The mature lady has already been through this phase and is not looking for something permanent, at least we hope so.
- The right approach: Where on one hand young girls wait for the man to make the move, older ladies aren’t afraid of approaching a man at the bar if they like him. Guys like it when the woman makes the first move. The overall communication in a relationship is better if the woman is older, because she won’t act like a young girl – not answering her phone to show her importance. She is more open to communication about the issues creeping in and also about her sexual needs. When a woman openly shares her desires and expectations from the relationship, it becomes easy for the man to please her. The best thing is that she doesn’t feel that by talking about her needs, she’ll lose her man because as it is she won’t.
- Experience helps: Let’s not kid ourselves, if she is a mature woman, she probably has some experience up her sleeve, and yes, we mean sexually. They are generally not shy in being naked around their man and are also ready to please him. The more experience they have, the more they know about the things that men like in the bedroom and won’t shy away from giving a practical demo of their knowledge. With many years of experience with different men, mature women know the tricks of the trade and what makes a man roar like the lion.
- Self-awareness: This one is twisted but very practical. Younger women aren’t so aware about their own bodies and that has been proven by a variety of researches, so no questioning that. But older women on the other hand have years of experience with other men as well as with themselves. You know what we mean, right? They have been relieving themselves on their own and have a wide knowledge about the things that turn them on and what works best for them. Since they are self-aware, they are in a position to better guide their partners in pleasuring them which becomes a challenge when it comes to younger women.
The best part is that they are even ready to teach their younger lovers the tricks which will establish the men as experienced studs after the relationship is over and they move towards someone their own age.
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